Finally pacifier-free ☺️

How my son gave up his pacifier in 3 nights

✅ A gentle way for kids to give up the pacifier on their own

Hi 👋 I’m Kate

Let me tell you how my son gave up his pacifier. And how you can do the same at home.

With my daughter, the pacifier went away almost by itself

So I figured my second child would be just as easy 😅

My oldest simply left her pacifier behind at age two. I didn’t do anything special.

When friends asked me how, I just shrugged. I had no real plan to share.

Then came Jonah, and he loved his pacifier more than anything

And I had no idea what to do 😫

Jonah sits on the floor clutching his pacifier while Kate kneels beside him, exhausted

Jonah needed his pacifier to fall asleep and to calm down. At almost three, I still searched for it in the dark. Our dentist had already brought it up twice.

So we invited the Paci Fairy over. That night, Jonah cried for two whole hours. On the third night, I gave up. The pacifier was back in his bed.

The next morning, I sat crying at the kitchen table.

Why this is definitely not your fault

Because nobody prepares you for this step

Kate sits at the table, unsure, with her phone, parenting books, a fairy letter and a gift

Prenatal class teaches you diapers and bath time. Nobody teaches you how the pacifier goes away 🤷‍♀️

You search online and find a hundred opinions. Some swear by the Paci Fairy. Others say to cut the pacifier. A clear plan is hard to find.

So I started looking for answers myself

At night, once Jonah was finally asleep 😃

I read what pediatricians and pediatric dentists recommend. I added studies and more than 25 stories from other parents.

I wrote everything important down on notes. Over time, they filled a thick binder.

A thick binder full of handwritten notes with colorful sticky tabs

Then I noticed something that really frustrated me. Almost all advice starts at the wrong point. What almost nobody mentions is the right order.

That was exactly the mistake I made with Jonah.

After three nights, the pacifier was history at our house

And this time without two hours of crying 🥹

After a few weeks of reading, I had a plan. I didn’t know yet if it would work. I tried it with Jonah anyway.

Jonah waves goodbye to his pacifier while Kate kneels proudly beside him

One evening, Jonah handed over his pacifier on his own.

The first night was hard, I won’t sugarcoat it. On the third night, he fell asleep calmly. For the first time in almost three years, without a pacifier.

Maybe we just got lucky?

I honestly asked myself that afterward 🤔

So I typed up my notes neatly. My sister got them first. Then I shared them with moms from our playgroup.

To be honest, I didn’t think much of it.

“Maybe it will help someone 🤷‍♀️”

But then something happened that I never expected …

Almost every mom got back to me!

And I truly didn’t see that coming 🥹

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Sarah9:41 PM

Thank you, thank you, thank you!!

Mia slept without her pacifier tonight for the first time. I still can’t believe it 😭

Jessica7:12 PM

Re: Your pacifier notes

It took us a whole week. But now it’s really gone!

Ashley2:03 PM

Pacifier is gone 🎉

Ben actually handed it over himself. No drama at all.

Megan9:47 AM

Fwd: Pacifier-free notes

My sister sent me your pages. Is it okay if I pass them on?

LaurenYesterday

Made it through night three!

The first night was rough. But last night she just fell asleep.

PlaygroupYesterday

Could you send the pages again?

Two new moms in the group are asking for them 🙂

This is what messages like these look like (examples)

Soon even friends of those moms asked for my pages. Suddenly my inbox was full of strangers’ names.

Today I know it wasn’t luck. Pediatricians recommend exactly this order. And I know why the Paci Fairy failed for us.

I believe every mom should know this

That’s why my pages are now available to every family

I reworked everything carefully once more. Now you can follow the path at home without me.

Plus the story Jonah wanted to hear every single night.

Would you like to try this path too?

I packed the whole path into one simple system. It guides you from the first step to the third night. Every evening, you know what comes next.

Here’s what’s inside the Pacifier-Free System:

One plan instead of conflicting tipsThe book guides you all the way to the third night. Every evening, you know the next step.
A story your child will loveIn it, the little bear says goodbye to his pacifier. Jonah wanted to hear it every night, again and again.
Always know where you areYour Action Plan hangs on the fridge. One glance shows you the next step.
Your child sees their own progressOn the Circle Calendar, they circle every day they did it. That makes them proud and excited for tomorrow.
At bedtime, your child knows what’s comingYour bedtime routine hangs by the bed as pictures. That helps, no matter who puts your child to bed.
You’ll never run out of words at nightWhen your child asks for the pacifier, you have ready phrases. They sit on the nightstand, even when you’re exhausted.
Grandma secretly hands out the pacifier?A ready-made letter explains everything to daycare and grandparents. That way everyone joins in, without long debates.
Your child reaches for the pacifier during the day?Simple mouth games distract them and are fun. All you need is what you already have at home.

I’d love to give the system away for free. But it took many evenings and quite a bit of money.

Think about what you’ve already spent on solutions. The Paci Fairy book, the glitter letter and the big trade-in gift 🎁

That’s why I think $17.95 is a fair price.

The Pacifier-Free SystemPacifier-Free in 3 NightsHow your child says goodbye to the pacifier, all on their own

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The Pacifier-Free System

$17.95

Bonus 1

Bedtime story for your child

“The Little Bear and His Pacifier”

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Bonus 2

6 printable templates

$0.00 included

Total$17.95

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Read the book at your own pace. Try the first steps. If it doesn’t help, just send us a short email. Then you get your $17.95 back. You don’t have to give us a reason. You may keep the bedtime story anyway.

Questions and answers

Does it really work in three nights?

The three nights are the final stage. Before that, you prepare your child for one to two weeks. That way they learn to settle down without a pacifier first. That’s why the nights afterward are usually much calmer. Some children still need a week or longer. That’s why you have 30 days to try it.

Do I need any special products?

No, you only need what you already have at home. Add a little preparation and a clear routine. That’s all I needed with Jonah, too.

Does the system work for very strong-willed kids?

Yes, that’s exactly when a calm, clear routine helps. You prepare your child well and stay calm. Then you guide them safely through the first nights.

Isn’t this stressful for my child?

That’s exactly what it shouldn’t be. The system relies on preparation and calm support. There may still be tears in the first nights. You’ll learn how to comfort your child without a pacifier.

What age is the system for?

Many parents start between the second and third birthday. What matters more is whether your child understands simple agreements.

Is this a physical book?

No, everything is digital. Book, bedtime story and templates come as PDFs. You can download them right after your purchase. Read them on any screen, or print them out.

Instant download

The Pacifier-Free System

$17.95

Bonus 1

Bedtime story for your child

“The Little Bear and His Pacifier”

$0.00 included

Bonus 2

6 printable templates

$0.00 included

Total$17.95

Add to cart »

VISA Apple Pay Google Pay 🔒 SSL

30-day money-back guarantee

Costs less than a store-bought pacifier weaning kit 🍼

Please note: A guarantee of success for every child wouldn’t be honest 🙂 Every child is different, so we can’t promise results. But you’re covered by our money-back guarantee! Or reach out to us directly if you get stuck: [email protected]

Has your dentist already noticed changes in your child’s teeth? Then please talk the plan over with them, too.

Examples: how parents might describe the Pacifier-Free System. These are not real customer reviews.

Our Emma (2.5) fell asleep without her pacifier on the third night. I never thought it could go this calmly.

EEmily

For us, it took about a week, not three nights. But it worked, and without a lot of screaming.

SSarah

Our son wants to hear the little bear story every night. On the fourth evening, he gave up his pacifier on his own.

MMike

No miracle cure, but finally a plan we could stick to. That really helped us as parents.

LLauren

After two failed tries with the Paci Fairy, I had no hope left. This time it actually worked.

AAmanda

Our dentist had brought up the pacifier twice. Now it’s gone, and without a marathon of tears.

JJessica

The first night was hard, I won’t sugarcoat it. From the second night on, it got a little easier every evening.

DDan

Finally not just “tough it out.” You can tell a mom wrote this who went through it herself.

NNicole

Results vary from child to child and can’t be guaranteed.